Expat kid Q&A: Phnom Penh has come a long way, baby makers!

In this expat series about raising kids in Cambodia, we talk to parents about the finer points of parenting in the Kingdom of Wonder.

Parenting in Phnom Penh

Phnom Penh parenting: families are everything out here!

English expat Dan Riley has been living in Phnom Penh since 2004, and is currently the editor of Stuff Cambodia magazine. He’s also the father of a 3-year-old girl who enjoys expending her boundless energy at the public, pedestrianized places around his local neighborhood. I asked Dan a few questions about expat parenting in Phnom Penh.

What’s the best part about raising kids in Phnom Penh?

Some things here are so much more affordable than in the West, so you can enjoy doing them more often without fear of breaking the bank. For example, why buy a car and do all your cooking at home when you can regularly get tuk tuks to and from various restaurants across town? I’ve found the local people are really friendly and interested in Westerners with kids; families are everything out here. And nearly everyone in town speaks English, or has someone nearby that does, so new arrivals can get things done from the off.

Astroturf pitches (with plastic pellets instead of sand or water) have sprung up all over in recent years, providing a safe and clean environment for kids to get into sports. And of course there are many swimming pools and bars/restaurants with kids play areas and gardens. Did I mention air-conditioned cinemas, bowling alleys, laser tag, climbing walls, etc? This place has come a long way, baby makers.

What’s the worst part about raising kids in Phnom Penh?

There are no quality free schools and the free health care is pretty limited and not particularly pleasant. There are some decent clinics and hospitals, but anything really serious still requires a trip to Thailand or Vietnam, so health insurance can be a (financial) lifesaver. Phnom Penh can also be quite noisy, dirty and hot. Making excursions out of town can certainly remind you of that.

riding a scooter in Wat Botum Park

Scooting through Wat Botum Park.

What are your favorite activities for kids in Phnom Penh?

I deliberately chose a rental house that was located within walking distance of the riverside and Wat Botum park, as they both offer large public spaces for kids to run around safe from traffic. The entire perimeter of the Royal Palace is either pedestrianized or with pavement (generally without obstruction) and there are tons of families with young kids enjoying the front of the palace area every night: cycling, playing badminton, football and other games. My daughter got a scooter for Christmas and just the other night was racing it, safely, with another scooter boy along the front of the palace. You often bump into your friends and your children can make new friends. There are snacks and cool, cheap drinks for sale all over, its well lit up at night, and there’s usually a nice breeze coming off the river.

Wat Botum playground is bigger and better than anything I saw growing up in England. Saturday and Sunday evenings can be a bit tricky trying to find your little ones amongst the throngs in the murky light (the lamps are not great) but its mostly fenced off and there is a security guard patrolling. Outside of the playground there is a musical fountain and a super smooth area around the Cambodia-Vietnam Friendship Memorial that can be used for rollerblading, scootering and dare I say it skateboarding. I feel comfortable taking my daughter there anytime, except of course in the midday sun.

If you could give one piece of advice to new expat parents in Phnom Penh, what would it be?

Make the most of the cheap child care, transport, restaurants, sporting facilities and entertainment options. I believe it’s much easier to maintain a social life as a parent here than it is in the West, or at least a more varied social life. Now there are so many more young families of all nationalities living in Phnom Penh, so you and your kids can make new friends and enjoy your leisure time together on a regular basis. Pretty much everything to do with raising a child is now available in shops, and there are networks and forums you can browse and ask for advice.

Review: Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel, Phnom Penh

It’s all about location, location, location at Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel on Street 178. Located in the heart of Phnom Penh’s Daun Penh district (that’s the riverside neighborhood), Frangipani Royal Palace is on the doorstep of the National Museum and the Royal Palace, and a two-minute walk to the plethora of bars, restaurants, and shopping on the riverside.

Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel Phnom Penh

Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel is just a block away from Phnom Penh’s riverside in the heart of the action.

The best thing about Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel is the central location and the rooftop pool which offers gorgeous panoramic views of Phnom Penh. There are loungers and tables by the pool, and it’s a great spot to enjoy Phnom Penh’s lovely sunsets. They’ve also got a sky bar on the roof, if you want a sundowner to go with your sunset.

Sunset at the Frangipani Royal Place Hotel.

Sunset at the Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel.

Rates include a complimentary breakfast, and wired or wireless Internet. Each room has a large flatscreen TV with cable that include English-language channels. Rooms are equipped with a safe and a mini-bar, and guests are allowed free use of the hotel’s bicycles.

Frangipani Royal Place Hotel room

Rooms at the Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel are simple but clean.

Less impressive were the rooms. Rooms are spacious and have everything a busy visitor would want, including cable TV and a bathtub. But considering the price, the rooms were a bit faded. They were clean, but our room has some peeling paint, which is not what you’d expect in a “luxury” hotel (yes, $80 is a luxury hotel in Cambodia). If you’re willing to stay somewhere less central, you’d be able to find something more luxurious for the price.

Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel is one of a group of four Frangipani Villa hotels in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap. Of them, Frangipani Royal Palace Hotel is the high-end option in Phnom Penh. Many of the rooms aren’t as snazzy as they could be, but still offer great value for money in a really central location; the hotel is walking distance from lots of nice restaurants and bars, plus attractions like the riverside, Royal Museum, and the Royal Palace.

View from the Frangipani Royal Palace hotel's rooftop bar at sunset.

View from the Frangipani’s rooftop bar at sunset.

All of the Frangipani hotels have a strict no sex tourism policy and do not allow outside guests to stay the night.

Walk-in rates for rooms range from $80 to $140, not including 10% hotel tax. Prices on Booking.com and Agoda range from around $60 up to $160. The cheaper rooms online are often $20-25 less expensive than walk-in rates, while the pricier rooms can be more expensive, so it’s worth checking the rates before you book.

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Recipes from the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen: Beef saraman curry with pumpkin

Since it opened three years ago, Cuisine Wat Damnak in Siem Reap has become a critically acclaimed culinary institution, attracting patrons from all over the world. Many consider it the mecca for modern Cambodian cuisine.

This is the fourth of five posts from Steven, who spent time working in the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen, covering a five-course menu and describing some of the techniques and flavor combinations that Chef Joannès Rivière uses to such brilliant effect. Chef Rivière’s recipes have inspired a legion of chefs in Cambodia, both local and foreign. He has graciously supplied some simple recipes and cooking tips to inspire your kitchen, too.

Chef Joannès Rivière in the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen.

Chef Joannès Rivière in the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen.

Beef Saraman curry is one of our favorite dishes at Cuisine Wat Damnak. This version, with pumpkin, is especially delicious. This recipe comes from the Cham people, an Islamic ethnic community in Cambodia. Although the Cham maintain their Cambodian identity, they are a distinct group within the country and most observe Islamic religious practices. This includes not eating pork, and for this reason beef features heavily in Cham cuisine. Most beef sellers at the markets are female Chams, identifiable by their headscarves.

Any cut of beef can be used, but Chef Rivière advises choosing a joint that requires slow cooking, such as a cheek or shank. The slow cooking will yield not only tender meat but a rich broth that is the basis for the saraman sauce. Pumpkin is the best vegetable to include in this dish, but some greens could also be served as an accompaniment, along with a bowl of rice.

Cuisine Wat Damnak beef saramen curry

The finished product (as taken by a chef, not a photographer unfortunately).

Beef saraman curry with pumpkin

1 liter fresh coconut water with cream
4 beef cheeks or shanks (see Chef’s Notes)
Vegetable oil
A small handful of star anise
A small handful of cassia bark (see Chef’s Notes)
1 large piece of galangal, sliced
5 lemongrass stalks, crushed
A handful of kaffir lime leaf
50 ml fish sauce
1 tablespoon palm sugar

For the curry paste:
2 thumb-sized pieces of turmeric root, chopped
1 large galangal root, chopped
Small handful garlic cloves
Peel of 1 kaffir lime peel
300 g sliced lemongrass
4 hot chilies

1 tablespoon prahok
1 heaped tablespoon of roasted, ground star anise and cassia
1-2 heaped tablespoons of dried chili paste (see Chef’s Notes)
1 cup toasted peanuts
1 cup toasted coconut
1 quarter of a pumpkin, kabocha, or butternut squash
1 heaped tablespoon each of roasted, ground star anise and cassia
Shallots

beef saramen curry ingredients

Assembling the ingredients for beef saramen curry with pumpkin.

  1. Separate the fresh coconut water from its cream: Place the coconut water in a plastic container and refrigerate. The cream will rise to the top. Skim off with a ladle and keep chilled in a separate container.
  2. Prepare the beef: Preheat the oven to 270 Celsius. If using cheeks, remove any membrane along with any excess fat. If using shank, cut the meat into identical-sized pieces, about 200 g apiece. Heat vegetable oil in a wide pot. Sear the beef in the oil until a nice caramelized colour is achieved.
  3. To the meat in the pot, add the small handfuls of star anise and cassia, the sliced galangal root, the 5 crushed lemongrass stalks, and the handful of kaffir lime leaf. Stir in the coconut water, the fish sauce, and 1 tablespoon of palm sugar.
  4. Cover and place in the oven. Cook until it starts to bubble. Then turn the heat down to 170 Celsius and cook for four hours, or until the meat is tender. (See Chef’s Note.)
  5. When the meat is cooked, remove it from the pot and place on a cooling rack. When cool, place in the fridge. Strain the broth and set aside.
  6. Prepare the saraman sauce: Blitz the curry paste ingredients together in a food processor until a paste is formed. Or, if you are feeling up to it, grind them together in a large mortar and pestle. Meanwhile, heat a bit of the fat skimmed from the beef stock in a large pan and add 1 tablespoon of prahok. Cook until golden.
  7. Add the curry paste and the tablespoons of ground star anise and ground cassia. Cook for a further 5 minutes. Add the dried chilli paste and mix well. Add the beef stock and season with some additional fish sauce, if needed to season. Bring to boil, then reduce to a simmer and cook for 10 minutes.
  8. Stir in the reserved coconut cream and simmer for another 5 minutes. Blend with a hand blender and strain.
  9. In a blender, mix a handful of roasted peanuts with a handful of toasted coconut until a paste is formed. Add the nut paste to the strained sauce. Bring to a boil, then blend again with the hand blender. Set aside.
  10. Cook the pumpkin. If steaming: Peel the pumpkin and cut into two-inch chunks. (If the chunks are not of equal size they will cook unevenly.) Spread evenly in the steaming chamber and sprinkle with salt. Steam until tender. If roasting: Place the unpeeled pumpkin segment in a preheated 200 C oven unpeeled and roast until tender. Allow to cool, then carefully peel and cut into chunks.
  11. Fry the shallots: Peel the shallots and slice them thinly. Cover the slices with water, then drain. Heat a wok with an inch of vegetable oil in the bottom. Line a plate with some paper towels. Pat the shallots dry with more paper towel. Put the shallots into the wok and stir gently until a golden color. Remove from the oil using a sieve and spread on the paper-towel-covered plate, where they will continue to color and crisp up.
  12. To assemble the dish, you will need 2 pans, one with a lid. Slice the chilled beef into slices about 2 cm thick. Place the slices in the lidded pan together with the pumpkin chunks. Add a ladle of the sauce and a ladle of water. Set on medium heat and allow to thoroughly heat through. Be careful not to let the sauce boil. Taste and add salt if needed.
  13. Serve in heated bowls, with a ladleful of sauce over the top. Sprinkle with some toasted coconut, toasted peanuts, and some of the fried shallots, and serve. Offer steamed rice alongside.
Cuisine Wat Damnak service

Assembling a masterpiece during service at Cuisine Wat Damnak.

Chef’s Notes

Beef in Cambodia is notoriously inconsistent and sometimes it can take longer to cook. If you are planning on preparing this dish, then it is advisable to cook the beef the day before to allow for additional cooking time if needed. After cooking, the meat should be properly chilled in order to slice it properly.

Cassia bark is widely available in Cambodia, but cinnamon does the same job.

The dried chili paste can be bought ready made from the market. To make your own,  soak dried chilies in water, squeeze them dry, and puree in a food processor. If the puree is too dry, add water until it is the right consistency.

The exact composition of curry paste in Cambodia is, as with many Cambodian recipes, up to the person who is making it, so the amounts you use of each ingredient can vary according to your taste. As a general rule of thumb, though, Chef Rivière advises using about a quarter as much turmeric as galangal, and roughly one kaffir lime for every 300-400 grams of galangal. Lemongrass, the other main ingredient, can be bought ready sliced at the market; 3 large handfuls of sliced lemongrass to every large galangal root should give a nice balanced paste. However, you can change the proportions until you find the combination that you most prefer.

About the debate to use shrimp paste or prahok: “It really depends on who you talk to. People say that shrimp paste is not Cambodian, but there’s an island near Koh Kong called Koh Kapi, shrimp paste island. When I was shown the recipe by an older Khmer Muslim woman, she used shrimp paste. I don’t use kapi personally, because I like the taste of prahok. I think at the end of the day it’s a matter of personal taste.”

market chilies in Siem Reap

Shopping for chilies at Siem Reap’s Psar Leu.

A note about Cambodian cooking

Rivière points out that Cambodian cooking, and indeed South East Asian cooking generally, is by no means an exact science. The recipes he has provided feature all of the ingredients you will need and the techniques required to execute the dishes, but the exact amounts used will depend on your taste.

Use the ingredients sensibly and taste as you go. Masses of sugar will obviously make a dish too sweet, while not enough fish sauce may leave the dish bland and underseasoned.

The more you cook a cuisine the more accustomed you become to the basics involved. Certain ingredients come up again and again and you will learn what they do and how to use them properly. We have tried to be as clear as possible in the presentation of these recipes, but they all require you to just roll up your sleeves and give them a go.

If you’re in Siem Reap, be sure to make a reservation at Chef Rivière’s restaurant, Cuisine Wat Damnak.

Read: A Clash of Innocents by Sue Guiney

This month, the Siem Reap Women’s Book Club is reading A Clash of Innocents by American author Sue Guiney. Somehow the book, which is about the lives of Cambodia expats, didn’t make it onto my radar when it was published in 2011. The book is about 60-year-old American expat Deborah Youngman, who runs the Khmer Home for Blessed Children, a home for 40 orphaned or abandoned children. One day, Amanda, an American backpacker with a mysterious past, shows up, and Deborah’s life goes topsy-turvy.

Phnom Penh alley

A Clash of Innocents takes place on Phnom Penh’s mean streets (and in a local orphanage).

A Clash of Innocents is a compelling read. I picked it up on Amazon (only $2.99!) and spent the rest of the day in bed reading it until there was nothing left to read. Guiney’s depiction of Cambodia is a loving one, she’s clearly fallen for Phnom Penh and it shows in her descriptions of the colors, the smells, and the oppressive heat during hot season.

However, there were some issues that I found difficult to get past. At one point early in the novel, Deborah seems to confess to buying some of the orphans from their families, when she says, “You know orphan can mean a lot of different things here. Some of my kids have living parents, even though those parents have given them up. Sometimes they’ve even taken money for them.”

By way of explanation she goes on to say “sometimes it’s me or the sex trade.” This month Childsafe is running a “Think Families” campaign that advocates keeping families together and not creating more “orphans” by putting children into orphanages. With that in the forefront of my mind, it was hard to like the characters in the book. Why pay a poverty-stricken family to take their child? Wouldn’t paying them to keep their child be a marginally better solution?

And perhaps this is the crux of the problem with A Clash of Innocents. The characters are not fleshed out enough to understand their seemingly selfish behavior: separating families, disappearing on children that have grown attached to the them, berating each other for not getting over events in their past that are materially worse than the events in their own past that they haven’t gotten over, and constantly trying to fix one another without first fixing themselves.

At its core, A Clash of Innocents is the story of profoundly damaged people trying to heal themselves by “saving” Cambodia’s children. It’s hard, though, in light of what we know about the effect that orphanages have on children, to not wonder if ultimately the arrangement benefits the troubled expats more than the children themselves.

For the above reasons, I found the book a frustrating but thought-provoking read. I expect a lively discussion at the book group! As one of the just a few novels about Cambodia expats, I would definitely recommend it to those looking to know more about what life as a Cambodia expat (or at least a certain type of expat) is like. And at just $2.99 on Amazon, it’s a good value read. A follow-up book was published a year ago, Out of the Ruins, which is also available on Amazon for $2.99.

Review: Bric-a-Brac B&B, Shop, and Bar, Battambang

We’re sad to report that as of 2021, Bric-à-Brac has permanently closed.

The most sumptuous new place to stay in Battambang is Bric-à-Brac, a stunning three-room boutique bed and breakfast, design showroom, and bar located in the heart of the city just two blocks from the river. Owners Robert Carmack, an American food writer, and Morrison Polkinghorne, an Australian textile designer, have spared no expense in kitting out the three large and ludicrously high-ceilinged rooms with plush antiques and delightful second-hand finds from across the globe, spanning decades and styles, with a maximalist mix-and-match approach that is as genuine as it is gorgeous.

Bric a Brac Battambang Orientale room

Bric-a-Brac’s “Orientale” room features a gorgeous carved Chinese matrimonial bed and Meiji-era screen.

The Coloniale room celebrates the design sensibility of French Indochina, with original tilework floors and period furnishings. A mosquito net is draped over the bed with some of Morrison’s own handmade tassels, and hidden in a side table drawer are a set of slides from the owners’ travels in Cambodia. The Indochine’s textured pink grasscloth walls are a marvel, and the desk sourced from a local school. We were especially delighted by the Khmer graffiti in the spacious bathroom. Meanwhile, the Orientale features a spectacular carved Chinese matrimonial bed and Meiji-era screen.

Bric-a-Brac Battambang Coloniale

The “Coloniale” room celebrates the design sensibility of French Indochina. Don’t miss the floor.

Newly opened in November 2014, the owners undertook renovations with care, restoring, preserving, and otherwise highlighting original elements like tile, plasterwork, and the red wrought iron window coverings. There is an element of beautiful decay here — or what the Japanese might call wabi-sabi — and along with the textiles and furnishings it’s a feast of texture and color for the senses.

Bric-a-Brac Battambang

Battambang’s Bric-a-Brac curiosity shop and design showroom.

Even if you’re not staying at Bric-à-Brac, be sure to spend some time at the Libations Bar, an open kitchen with a small but thoughtful wine list, spirits, coffee, and cocktail nibbles. We enjoyed a Côte de Provence rosé with the housemade pork rillettes, which came with slices of baguette, pickled bamboo, and olives. Settle yourself into a wicker chair and watch the Battambang street life roll lazily by as you sip your drink. And stop in at the design showroom, where the duo displays goodies from their travels around the world, including pillows of antique Irish linen hand-embroidered with Burmese days of the week. If you’re lucky, Morrison will be behind the loom he built himself on site.

Bric-a-Brac's Libations bar

Bric-a-Brac’s Libations Bar serves a mean glass of rosé.

Rooms come with aircon, a continental breakfast tray, daily water, free WiFi, and ensuite bathrooms with hot shower, and semi-private balconies overlooking the street. Rack rates are listed at $125 per night. If you’re willing to risk it, walk-ins get a more favorable rate. The bar and shop are closed Mondays.

Bric-à-Brac

119 Street 2, Battambang
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Recipes from the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen: Pork rib and squid soup

Since it opened three years ago, Cuisine Wat Damnak in Siem Reap has become a critically acclaimed culinary institution, attracting patrons from all over the world. Many consider it the mecca for modern Cambodian cuisine.

This is the third of five posts from Steven, who spent time working in the Cuisine Wat Damnak kitchen, covering a five-course menu and describing some of the techniques and flavor combinations that Chef Joannès Rivière uses to such brilliant effect. Chef Rivière’s recipes have inspired a legion of chefs in Cambodia, both local and foreign. He has graciously supplied some simple recipes and cooking tips to inspire your kitchen, too.

Cuisine Wat Damnak Siem Reap

Siem Reap’s top table: Cuisine Wat Damnak.

Third Course: Pork Rib and Squid Soup with Baby Ginger and Purple Sweet Potato

Soup plays a major part in Cambodian food culture and is featured on every menu at Cuisine Wat Damnak. A large pot of goodness that the whole family can enjoy together reflects the collective element of Khmer society.

This week Chef Joannès Rivière shares his recipe for a soup of pork ribs and squid, both dried and fresh, that also uses baby ginger (if you can get it) and purple potatoes. One great advantage of living in Cambodia is that much of the meat here is organically fed and free range, and that certainly includes pork. Here the pork ribs are used to make the soup stock as well as appearing in the finished dish.

Cambodian pork rib and squid soup

Riviere’s Cambodian-style pork rib and squid soup.

Pork Rib and Squid Soup with Baby Ginger and Purple Sweet Potato

Vegetable oil
1 rack of pork ribs (approx. 1 kilo)
1 small dried squid (see Chef’s Notes)
10 cloves of garlic, whole
1 large thumb of ginger root, chopped
6 shallots, sliced
8 dried black mushrooms
½ kilo fresh squid
50 ml fish sauce
1 heaped tablespoon powdered palm sugar
Baby ginger roots with stem and leaves (see Chef’s Notes)
Purple sweet potatoes (see Chef’s Notes)

Cambodian ingredients

Local Cambodian ingredients give the dish added depth.

  1. Heat 3 tablespoons of the oil in a large frying pan and sear the pork ribs until you get a nice caramelized color. Remove them to a large pot. In the same frying pan, sear the dried squid until brown. Add it to the pot with the ribs.
  2. In the same frying pan, brown the garlic, shallots, and ginger. (Add additional oil if needed.) Add them to the pot as well.
  3. Cut the heads off the fresh squid and add the heads to the pot, along with the 8 dried mushrooms.
  4. Cover the ingredients in the pot with water. Add the fish sauce and palm sugar. Bring to a boil and skim off any scum that rises to the surface. Meanwhile, reduce the pot to a simmer and cook for 2 hours, or until the ribs are tender.
  5. Remove the cooked ribs from the stock and place on a cooling rack. If you plan on deboning the ribs, do it while they are still warm, as the bone will slide out a lot more easily.
  6. Strain the broth, discarding the solids, and refrigerate. When the ribs are cool enough, put them in the fridge, too. If you want to serve them on the bone, wait until they are cold, then cut into portions 2 or 3 ribs wide.
  7. Take the headless squid and peel off the purple film. Under a trickle of water from the tap, scoop out the innards and remove the plasticky spine. Rinse the squid off and slice into rings.
  8. Take the baby ginger and cut the leaves from the stalks. Select a few whole, unblemished leaves and roll them up, then slice very thinly. Set aside. Clean and trim the stem and root of the baby ginger. Slice thinly with a mandolin or use a knife to cut into thin slices or julienne. (If this is too much hassle, buy some pre-julienned ginger.
  9. Prepare the purple sweet potatoes: Wash and peel and cook in a steamer. When cooked, cut into serving-size wedges or chunks. (If you don’t have a steamer, see the Chef’s Note.)
  10. Assemble the soup: Heat up the broth and add the ribs and the sweet potato chunks. Cut the heat to low and cook until the meat and potatoes are heated through.
  11. Have ready some heated bowls. Bring the soup to a boil, add the sliced baby ginger and allow to cook for a minute, then remove the soup from the heat. Place two or three pieces of sweet potato in each bowl. Arrange the pork ribs on top of the potatoes. Scatter slices of baby ginger over the ribs.
  12. Meanwhile, place a frying pan on high heat and add a splash of vegetable oil. When the pan is very hot, add the seasoned squid rings and cook for 20 to 30 seconds. (Do not leave them in the pan for too long or they will go rubbery.) Add the squid rings to the soup bowls.
  13. To serve, pour over some of the broth and garnish with the finely sliced baby ginger leaves. Offer a bowl of steamed rice alongside.
Chef Joannes Riviere

Chef Joannès Rivière at Cuisine Wat Damnak.

Chef’s Notes

Dried squid is a very good natural source of MSG. Don’t use too big a piece, however, advises Chef Rivière, or the broth will be too strong. The aim is to add a bit of body to the soup, he says, not overwhelm it.

Purple sweet potatoes are a tricky vegetable to cook, the chef warns, as they are prone to falling apart if even slightly overcooked. The best option is to peel them and steam them whole. If you don’t have a steamer, you can cut them into wedges and boil them until only partly cooked. Then oil a tray, spread the potato wedges on it, and place in a 250 C oven. Turn them after 15 minutes. They should be done in about half an hour, but check with a fork to make sure.

Baby ginger has a long green stem and long green leaves. The flavor is quite strong, which is why Chef Rivière advises blanching it briefly in the soup, as this will take the sting out of it. Baby ginger is not always available; if you can’t find it, you can use julienned ginger and some sliced spring onions.

Buying ingredients at a Cambodian market.

Buying ingredients at Siem Reap’s Psar Leu. Market shopping is a great way to learn about local ingredients.

A note about Cambodian cooking

Rivière points out that Cambodian cooking, and indeed South East Asian cooking generally, is by no means an exact science. The recipes he has provided feature all of the ingredients you will need and the techniques required to execute the dishes, but the exact amounts used will depend on your taste.

Use the ingredients sensibly and taste as you go. Masses of sugar will obviously make a dish too sweet, while not enough fish sauce may leave the dish bland and underseasoned.

The more you cook a cuisine the more accustomed you become to the basics involved. Certain ingredients come up again and again and you will learn what they do and how to use them properly. We have tried to be as clear as possible in the presentation of these recipes, but they all require you to just roll up your sleeves and give them a go.

If you’re in Siem Reap, be sure to make a reservation at Chef Rivière’s restaurant, Cuisine Wat Damnak.

Eating crab in Kep: Crab shack face-off, Redux

Gone are the days when there were just one or two crab shacks in Kep to choose from. Lately, more and more restaurants have been popping up along the shore next to Kep’s Crab Market, including several higher-end offerings, and these are the only ones that seem to make it into the Lonely Planet. I’m still of the belief that the most unassuming places are what make Kep’s Crab Shack Row so special, but I’m willing to eat crab just about anywhere in town to put that to the test. In our last Kep crab shack face-off we compared Srey Pov Restaurant and So Kheang Restaurant to market leader and Lonely Planet darling Kimly. Both compared favorably. This time we try a few more and see if they can beat Kimly at their own crabby game.

eating crab in Kep

Your diligent crab testers getting down to business.

Diamond Jasmine Restaurant

Diamond Jasmine may have a name better suited to a showgirl than a crab shack, but this friendly, family-owned business is easily the new contender for best crab shack in Kep. (Those who have been going there for years say that they have always been this good, it’s just that no one was paying attention.) The menu is similar to Kimly’s but Diamond Jasmine is easily better in both flavor and value. The standouts are the curry crab — seafood that’s been stir-fried in Cambodian kroeung (called “crab with spices” on the menu) and prawns with Kampot pepper.

Diamond Jasmine Kep

Diamond Jasmine’s crab with spices. It’s addictive.

Both the size of the crabs and prawns and the size of the portions were much larger at Diamond Jasmine, and cost less. The crabs were the big ones that the crab ladies usually hold back unless you demand them, and a medium dish at Diamond Jasmine had as many crabs as the large at Kimly. The sauces had a lighter touch but were just as good, putting the flavor of the seafood at the forefront of the dish. The prawns were large and liberally doused in both fresh green Kampot pepper and ground black pepper, making the dish intense and delicious. The soup sngor chuok kdam aka sour crab soup, was light and citrusy, the perfect compliment to the heavier flavors of the curry and pepper dishes.

Crab Market, Kep
T: 012 359 434; 099 500 109

Srey Neang Restaurant

Located next to Diamond Jasmine Restaurant, Srey Neang is a quiet, unassuming crab shack that, like the rest of them, look out onto Kep’s crab flats. The menu is similar to every other Cambodian-owned restaurant on the strip — there’s a page each for crab, prawn, fish, and squid dishes, as well as a selection of chicken and pork and various types of “moodles.” We ordered prawns stir-fried with Cambodian kroeung curry paste (called “prawns with spices” on the menu), fried crab with clear noodles, and fish sour soup with lemongrass.

Srey Neang Kep

Greasy and delicious.

Heavy with oil, the fried dishes were perhaps not the most compelling of the face-off, but were very good. The chili-infused crab had an understated, greasy deliciousness. The prawns were wonderful, and their taste was only heightened by the fact that we heard them pounding the kroeung fresh for our order. The curry was rustic and chunky, which made it easy to appreciate all of the separate flavors. The soup tasted like chicken powder and was the weakest dish of the bunch. Srey Neang has absolutely nothing unique about it and the cold fluorescent lighting does the place no favors, but the incredibly friendly service and low prices make it with visiting.

Crab Market, Kep
T: 097 336 3121; 097 762 4042

Holy Crab

Holy Crab is one of the newer upmarket restaurants nestled in between the run-down crab shacks on Kep’s Crab Shack Row. With its punny name and an actual paint-job and attempt at interior decor, Holy Crab represents the new wave of Kep seafood eateries that will probably take over the whole strip eventually. For that reason, it’s hard to be objective about places like this. On one hand, it’s nice to sit down in a place that isn’t an ambiance black hole, lit by a lone fluorescent lightbulb. On the other hand, it seems ridiculous to pay double to price just to have someone else remove the legs off the prawns.

Holy Crab Kep interior

Yes, that’s paint on the walls of Holy Crab.

Holy Crab’s offerings were definitely more refined in terms of preparation, but I strongly believe that the messiness of it all is part of the experience. One of the nicer things we tried was the crab soup, which was a rich, flavorful consomme with tender morsels of crab and slivers of black mushroom. It was wonderful, but the bowl was so small as to only be a few mouthfuls (seriously), and at $5.50 was priced similarly to one of the giant vats of crab soup at the neighboring crab shacks. If you’re looking for a more upscale night out, though, in that respect, Holy Crab delivers.

Crab Market, Kep
T: 097 632 3456

Srey Ka Restaurant

Srey Ka has an unassuming interior — that is, it’s completely bare-bones with little more than a few flypaper-covered fluorescent lights and Cambodia beer posters all over the walls. But the spartan decor belies the food, which is slightly more expensive than some of the more low-budget crab shacks (and by slightly, I do mean slightly, about $1 per dish) and a bit more refined. The tom yam soup we ordered had deboned fish, a rare occurrence in Cambodia. The soup was one of the best we had in Kep, it spicy but well balanced, and filled with fresh herbs. We also ordered stingray with hot basil. This was one of a few items they had on the menu that we hadn’t seen elsewhere, and it was a highlight of the meal.

Srey Ka Kep

Crab with Kampot pepper at Srey Ka had both pickled pepper and ground black pepper.

For the purpose of comparison, though, we ordered crab with Kampot pepper and prawns with spices (kroeung). The crab with pepper had ground black pepper and pickled green pepper, which was an interesting change, although I still prefer the fresh green pepper. The prawns were good, but not as appealing as those at other shacks. Overall, Srey Ka was better for their beyond-crab-and-curry-prawn offerings, but if you’re just looking for crab, it’s not the best choice.

Crab Market, Kep
T: 092 819 554; 097 700 1515

This time’s winner? Diamond Jasmine, for sure, but we’re still partial to buying crab directly at the Crab Market. Learn more about how to buy crabs direct from the crab ladies.

Want more? Check out part one, Eating crab in Kep: The crab shack face-off and Crab shack face-off, Part 3.

Urban homesteading in Cambodia

I’ve always harbored fantasies of having a life like the Little House on the Prairie book series that I devoured as a kid: growing my own food, building houses, killing bears. And while I’m not ready or willing to commit to full self-sufficiency, my life as a Cambodia expat — and our move to Siem Reap — has allowed us to dabble in urban homesteading.

growing seedlings in Cambodia

Starting with a bunch of seedlings to see what will actually grow well in Cambodia.

Urban homesteading encompasses a wide range of activities that are often associated with farm life, like growing your own food, canning, preserving, composting, and raising animals. Unlike real farmers, though, urban homesteaders live in suburbs or cities and so have limited space to work with. The brilliant designer of the Move to Cambodia book, Dan O. Williams, also designed one of the movement’s most inspirational tomes, The Backyard Homestead. He gave me a copy a few months ago and I attacked it like a kid on Christmas morning.

All my adult life I’ve lived in dense cities, and pretty much my biggest homestead was a window box filled with basil, oregano, and thyme. In Siem Reap, though, we’ve got a house with a garden big enough to allow us to grow our own food, or at least entertain fantasies of doing so. When I enquired about raising livestock, one of my neighbors waved aside the idea, telling me, “This is the city, not the provinces!” But he wasn’t too citified to add that if our geese had any babies, he’d like a few.

homestead geese in Cambodia

Contenders for the most spoiled geese in Cambodia.

One of the things I love about living in Cambodia is that there’s still a lot of flexibility about what you can do, and so much is still unregulated. Back in the U.S., many cities have laws against keeping chickens or ducks inside the city limits. Now I get woken up by roosters every morning, so I understand why those laws exist. But being a Siem Reap expat allows me to live out my sustainable-living fantasies while still living ten minutes away from a grocery store that stocks brie and Doritos.

Since we moved to Siem Reap we’ve slowly but surely started working our way towards our own rural idyll. The ducks and geese we’ve accumulated are just pets, but they certainly help contribute to my image of myself as a gentleman farmer. Our house came with five mango trees and two jackfruit trees, and we’ve since planted six papayas, a lime tree, a pomelo tree, a passionfruit, and two bananas. I have high hopes for the papayas and bananas; they’re both fast growers that can start bearing fruit in less than a year.

We planted three bananas, but the ducks attacked and demolished one of them. The ducks generally are not interested in my goal of raising my own food, and seem to think my goal is to raise their food: they spend most of their day trying to get around my creative attempts to keep them away from my seedlings.

We grow the herbs we can't find at the market, such as Italian basil and dill.

We grow the herbs we can’t find at the market, including Italian basil and dill.

We’ve also made some raised beds, where we are starting with several types of beans and herbs that aren’t reliably available in Cambodia, including dill, Italian basil, and flat-leaf parsley. Cambodia expats have been griping for years about the lack of flat-leaf parsley (hint: you can buy it at Veggy’s in both Phnom Penh and Siem Reap occasionally), so I figured it would be worth trying to grow our own.

Outside of those window boxes I have no experience cultivating anything except a sense of dissatisfaction, so there’s been plenty of trial and error.We’ve seen a lot of Cambodians growing corn, so we’ve got a few stalks planted, as well as eggplants, peppers, and a few other random things here and there. Our green-bean plant decided to produce just a handful of beans before it expired, giving us a literal three bean salad (beans turn out to need more direct sun). We’ve got tomato plants on our roof that are just starting to fruit. Larger varieties of tomatoes don’t do well in Cambodia; they can’t get enough sun and the humidity causes their skin to split. So we planted several types of cherry tomatoes to see which would work.

tomatoes on the roof

And our roof is covered with cherry tomatoes.

It’s been a learning process. The plants that grow at home often won’t do as well in Cambodia. But with local vegetables and herbs very inexpensive at the market, focusing entirely on Asian vegetables didn’t seem very appealing. However, we’ve learned the hard way that cold-weather vegetables just don’t want to grow here. Our beets died and our kale has decided to remain microkale (although it still tastes good). We’re growing a few other local bits and bobs, like betel and lemongrass, and will probably add more as we give up on trying to grow things that don’t like this climate. I’ve also been looking for plants that aren’t native but might be able to handle the weather here; I’ve got a tomatillo plant that’s six inches tall that I’m holding out hope for, and have several types of pepper seeds on their way.

Because the soil in Siem Reap is so inhospitable to most plants — it’s sandy clay that has low nutrients — we’ve started composting to supplement it. Composting also gives me a sense of self-righteousness that more than makes up for the effort it takes.

It’s hard to overstate the privilege we experience as expats in Cambodia; for example, we’ve been able to hire a gardener to come once a week and help us figure out what we’re doing, something we wouldn’t be able to afford at home. He’s been transplanting local plants and helps create barriers to keep the ducks from eating them. We still need to do the bulk of the work and water everything on a daily basis, but having the help is an undeniable asset. Also fantastically helpful is being able to learn from the locals, who obviously know quite a lot more than we do about the best way to grow things here. Even in our relatively suburban neighborhood most of our neighbors have at least a few chickens and several fruit trees and other edibles growing.

making pickles in Cambodia

It turns out you can pickle just about anything.

Canning and preserving are next on my list, and I’ve gotten obsessive about making pickles and various other fermented projects. Fermenting things is almost too easy here; fermentation can start in a matter of hours because of the heat. Right now I’ve got a vat of jackfruit hooch going, which I intend to make into vinegar, and I’ve been making kimchi and sauerkraut as well.

I’m alternately jealous of and daunted by the “real” homesteaders in the Cambodia expat community. While our garden is still mostly a barren wasteland, other expats have moved to Cambodia to fulfill their dreams of owning a proper farm and are happy to act as a resource for other would-be farmers. There are several online communities for Cambodia expats who are interested in agricultural topics: the Living in Cambodia forums are owned by an American farmer and have a decidedly barnyard focus, the Siem Reap Agricultural Network Facebook group is one of the best resources in the country, Phnom Penh Seed Shop sells seeds but can also offer growing guidance to amateur farmers, and Agriculture Consulting Team (ACT) in Cambodia is also worth a look.